Friday, June 25, 2010

LAGU GEMBIRA

KHAS UNTUK SEMUA PEMBACA DAN PELAWAT KUUU


Kalau Rasa Gembira Tepuk Tangan

If You're Happy and You Know It Clap Your Hands
Children's Song
(Malay)

Kalau rasa gembira tepuk tangan...(2x)
Kalau rasa gembira dan ingin menunjuknya
Kalau rasa gembira tepuk tangan

Kalau rasa gembira hentak kaki...(2x)
Kalau rasa gembira dan ingin menunjuknya
Kalau rasa gembira hentak kaki

Kalau rasa gembira petik jari...(2x)
Kalau rasa gembira dan ingin menunjuknya
Kalau rasa gembira petik jari

Kalau rasa gembira pukul peha...(2x)
Kalau rasa gembira dan ingin menunjuknya
Kalau rasa gembira pukul peha

Kalau rasa gembira sebut HURRAY...(2x)
Kalau rasa gembira dan ingin menunjuknya
Kalau rasa gembira sebut HURRAY

Kalau rasa gembira buat semua...(2x)
Kalau rasa gembira dan ingin menunjuknya
Kalau rasa gembira buat semua.

Children's Song
(English)

If you're happy & you know it clap your hands (2x)
If you're happy & you know it & you really want to show it
If you're happy & you know it clap your hands

If you're happy & you know it stomp your leg (2x)
If you're happy & you know it & you really want to show it
If you're happy & you know it stomp your leg

If you're happy & you know it twist your finger (2x)
If you're happy & you know it & you really want to show it
If you're happy & you know it twist your finger

If you're happy & you know it hit your lap (2x)
If you're happy & you know it & you really want to show it
If you're happy & you know it hit your lap

If you're happy & you know it say HURRAY (2x)
If you're happy & you know it & you really want to show it
If you're happy and you know it say HURRAY

If you're happy & you know it do it all (2x)
If you're happy & you know it & you really want to show it
If you're happy & you know it do it all.

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

Relation ship


TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.

A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call.. She answered, "Public Utilities Board." There was silence. She repeated, "PUB." There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she heard a lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is."

Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB".

NO POINTING FINGERS

A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?"
The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you."

We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.

If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.

CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS?

A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested "I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one." The SDU officer said, "Your requirements, please." "Oh, good looking, polite, humorous, sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest." The officer listened carefully and replied, "I understand you need television."

There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up a nd discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.

NO OVERPOWERING

Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character."

It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.

It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..


RIGHT SPEECH

There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other, we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party.

A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted, "Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school." On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me. Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She answered," You should appreciate that you married me. Other wise, he will be the millionaire and not you."

Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.



PERSONAL PERCEPTION

Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market.. On the way home, a boy commented, "Very stupid. Why neither of them rides on the donkey? "Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, "The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?" Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.

Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, "How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman."
The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, "Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you." Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders.

It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future.

Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..

BE PATIENT

This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.

Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, "Daddy, I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "but when are my fingers going to grow back?" The father went home & committed suicide.

Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.

People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.

"Good Life starts only when you stop wanting a better One"

"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away"


Happy Living..!!!!!!!!!

Sunday, June 13, 2010

Bila anak ku gembira melakukan aktiviti nya..



Emm..still cerita eryna..sekarang dah makin membesar dan perangai pun dah makin pandai..dia suka betul dengan hobi baru nya..menyepahkan barang peribadinya..yang tukang kutip..mesti MUMMY nya..tapi aku suka..at least she learn something bila lihat macam2 bentuk botol dalam bakul nya..ade besar dan ader kecik..yang ringan boleh dicampak..yang besar pakai tolak ajer..sambil mulut nya bebel2..tangan aktif bergerak..itulah eryna tersayang..2 hari lepas..cukup 9 bln umurnya..aku happy dengan nya walaupun da selalu tidak sihat..mungkin dia terlalu sensitif dengan persekitaran nya yang tercemar..yer memang kawasan rumah aku ni kawasan kurang sihat..siap ader belon besar.."kawasan denggi" lagi..dan ini lah eryna..

FIFA

Group A

Match Date - Time Venue Results
1 11/06 16:00 Johannesburg - JSC South Africa 1:1 (0:0) Mexico
2 11/06 20:30 Cape Town Uruguay 0:0 France
17 16/06 20:30 Tshwane/Pretoria South Africa Uruguay
18 17/06 20:30 Polokwane France Mexico
33 22/06 16:00 Rustenburg Mexico Uruguay
34 22/06 16:00 Mangaung/Bloemfontein France South Africa


Mungkin kah africa? wakil group A

Monday, June 7, 2010

kenapa aku mempunyai perasaan begini!!!!

Aku tak tahu kenapa ku mempunyai perasaan seperti ini sedangkan aku tak sepatutnya merasakan begini..setiap org berhak untuk bahagia dan gembira..dan aku..kenapa aku benci melihat mereka gembira dan rapat? itu bukan hak aku..tapi aku tak boleh membohongi perasaan aku ini..aku tak suka dan benci melihat mereka gembira..benci..jauh di hati aku cuba untuk membuang jauh2 perasaan ini tapi otak aku ligat mengatakan biarkan hidupnya terus musnah..ah..kenapa aku jahat sekali? aku pun tak pasti kenapa aku jadi begini..

mana peginya sifat positive aku..yang aku tanam selama ini..kenapa aku sibuk sangat nak amik tahu tentang kehidupan nya..biarkan saja dia dengan kehidupannya..kau sudah ader kehidupan kau sendiri..kau dah bahagia..ah..aku meleter pada diri sendiri tapi aku masih tak dapat menerima hakikat ini..buat masa ni.biarlah aku terus membenci..dan benci ini akan terus ada selagi aku melihat pergerakan dan perjalanan hidupnya..

aku kecewa dengan diri aku..dan cuma ader satu penyelesaian sekarang..hapuskan dia dari kamus fikiran mu..HAPUSKAN..DELETE>>>

Sunday, June 6, 2010

my annivesary

Hari ni hari anniversary aku yang ke dua..tanpa disangka..masa begitu cepat berlalu..dah dua tahun kami berkahwin..dan sudah ada seorang tanda cinta kami..aku sungguh bahagia berkahwin dan memiliki seorang suami yang sangat baik...walaupun percintaan kami sebelum kahwin amat sngkat tapi percintaan selepas berkahwin lagi menyeronokkan..kami saling mengenali dengan lebh dekat..memahami antara satu sama lain dan saling melengkapi..

Ulang tahun yang kedua ni, aku akan sambut dengan penuh kesederhanaan dan kebahagiaan..yang penting kamu bahagia dan cinta kami terus subur..buat suamiku..aku sangat sayang kamu..terima kasih menerima aku dengan seadanya dan memberikan kebahagian dan kasih sayang yang melimpah ruah disaat aku hampir hilang segalanya..kau hadir dahn memberi nafas baru pada aku..dan terima kasih tuhan..menganugerahkan lelaki yang boleh membahagiakan aku..ayah pada anakku..

Friday, June 4, 2010

Cara aku menguruskan tekanan

Kebelakangan ni, aku selalu tertekan di tempat kerja..dengan sistem baru yang masih belum sempurna sepenuhnya,tapi ingin digunakan dengan sepenuhnya..bagi aku, cadangan bos memang bagus, selagi tak guna, selagi tu kita tak dapat kesan dimana kelemahannya..tapi yang terseksa aku?AKU..huh sungguh tension..

Memang tempat keje, aku bukan diri aku yang sebenar,,dulu aku suka dengan kerja aku, tapi sekarang masuk ajer ofis, aku jadi penipu pada diri sendiri..berpura2 gembira melakukan kerja dengan sukanya dan mencintai kerja dengan sepenuhnya..

Itulah aku, hipokrit di tempat kerja..jadi untuk menghilangkan stress..aku akan balik tepat pada masanya..kerana aku tahu,,yang boleh menghilangkan tekanan aku cuma satu tempat dan hanya mereka yang terbaik..rumah aku dan suami tercinta dan anak tersayang..merekalah segala2 nya bagi aku..melihat mereka, semua keletihan aku hilang walaupun pada hakikatnya minda dan badan aku meronta2 berkata aku letih..aku penat..

Dan aku bersyukur, Tuhan mengurniakan aku mereka yang menjadi penawar yang terbaik untuk masalah aku..dan menghilangkan segala keletihan dan tekanan aku.. ;-) dan penawar tekanan adalah KELUARGA KITA SENDIRI

KL CAT PLAYGROUND

Visit cat with kiddos.. as a mom..and not really a cat lover.. I  tak la rasa excited. Just 2 of mykids so eager to play.. others.. more to ...